Intentional Reset Project

[00:00:00] You're listening to the Planner Girl Chatter podcast with your host Jamie Marcus Bratcher and Colleen Felian. Grab a fresh cup of coffee and the closest planner start unboxing your latest etsy order because it's time for Planner Girl Chatter. Welcome everybody to a fresh episode of Planner Girl Chatter. This is Jamie and I am here with my beautiful end of day midweek almost over co-host.

[00:00:30] It is wonderful to be here with you today and I just want everybody to know I put makeup on today because I had to take pictures and then you don't it doesn't look like I make up on them a pictures and so it was bullshit at the end of it. My natural beauty didn't shine guys my natural beauty didn't shine but it is right now Jamie.

[00:00:48] It is right now. The lighting looks great. I know it is really good lighting right now because you know people give a shit when we look like I know. Look I've got a face for radio people face for radio. Colleen I am dying to know how is your planner going?

[00:01:17] I would say that it is you know work in progress Jamie. It is a work in progress. I'm feeling really good for July. I did put the bookmark in the week and then it just went to all hell kick and caboodle, shit and chanola whatever those phrases are all of them.

[00:01:42] I am just lucky I showered today. I am proud of my showering and I also ate a salad yesterday and I'm proud of that too. I'm proud that at 8 o'clock at night when I was like maybe I should eat something I chose salad.

[00:02:06] Jamie quite frankly. My health is really good right now. My wellness and my sitting on a heating pad right now Jamie yes I am am I driving around in my brand new car with the seat heaters on and 100 degree weather and two sun Arizona yes yes I am because my wellness is real balanced but Jamie you know today is for those who

[00:02:35] today Jamie is summer solstice which is also the start of cancer season it is our season Jamie it is time for the feelings to just come out and for us to stop the bullshit and I just get to be and so I'm feeling like I'm going to just feel a lot for probably the next 30 days or so.

[00:03:01] I love it like normal amount of feeling but I'm going to talk more about it because it's fucking cancer season and so I'm talking about it. And that's all I'm doing how do you mean how I keep doing well I'm all I have 10 minutes left on the edit of the podcast that we recorded on June 1st that I'm just around getting around to finishing editing so that we can get it published so you know I really feel like the same as you do that I'm really happy with my job.

[00:03:31] I'm ready for it to be cancer season I'm ready for it to me like time for it to be me I even bought a kit I feel I do feel that organized because I have a birthday kit.

[00:03:47] I don't have a birthday kit this year. I'm an old birthday kid I think yeah I have a birthday kit for July so I feel like I'm good there I have plans my birthday week somehow the other people made that I didn't have to make somehow and so you know I'm ready for it to be by time because it has been a very busy season and I'm not even sure what day it is exactly is it Wednesday or Thursday for once.

[00:04:14] It's Wednesday it's Wednesday. It's not Thursday as much as I wanted to be yeah so it was kind of like how the month has been the whole time and so you know I'm like we're surviving so.

[00:04:28] You know sometimes gee me that's all we can do and I am excited to kick off July with a year of of me and you and us and.

[00:04:42] You know spending time and hopefully in July I'll be able to organize that because it's been a lot.

[00:04:52] June yeah.

[00:04:54] It's been wild.

[00:04:58] I was laughing because I have all these little samplers that I thought I used up all of the samplers are like like sticker samplers just pop up out of nowhere and so I'm using the cutest sampler she is part of my planner this weekend it's like or this week and so it's like cute it's pink and I went to go look up and see if I could it's from CPC 2020

[00:05:23] and I went to go look up to see if the shop is still around and maybe have the state aesthetic and they don't.

[00:05:30] You don't even exist anymore.

[00:05:33] It's a bummer when that happens you're like dammit why did I find this one I could have actually supported them and maybe kept them alive maybe my purchase would have been one that mattered.

[00:05:43] I know it bums me out when I realize that but what can you do so i'm happy to have our because a bunch of places in east Texas don't have power right now.

[00:05:55] So i'm very happy to have an air conditioning because bless bless the world so blessed texas man yeah my standard with the sassy club has not had power since Sunday no Friday of last week it's almost been a week.

[00:06:11] And she had to like go to a friend's house out of state so i'm very happy to have power so there's some things we can be grateful for as well i'm definitely a fan of power i'm a.

[00:06:22] yeah i'm a little my favorite so i like chocolate and I like electricity.

[00:06:28] Oh those are good things yeah the night of summer solstice or the first night of summer cancer season you're supposed to stay up and do something creative like be creative so.

[00:06:40] i'm hoping that in july I can just be channeling more creativity and spend more time.

[00:06:49] Doing creative stuff because I haven't even I made a pair of earrings like I needed a pair of earrings and I worked in my planner a little bit this week but haven't done as much creative stuff in the past month as what I would have liked so.

[00:07:04] I will say I got my first birthday present to myself which really is just normal part for us but we're going to call it a birthday present because it goes really well this conversation it is a bunch of card kits from graphic 45.

[00:07:19] So I too i'm trying to reconnect with my creativity and then but then I have to mail them to people I can't keep them I got a share of them so that's the challenge is the show.

[00:07:31] I accept cards to may how i might be able to send you one because your birthday is coming and so.

[00:07:38] You know it might be Christmas but that's fine I could mail you back your birthday card from last year.

[00:07:47] Oh god that was so perfect was Montana last year no I think it was two years ago we're so old.

[00:07:53] Oh my god it went back to her.

[00:07:56] Oh my gosh it's like everything sped up really fast and then now it's somehow almost July right.

[00:08:08] Like last six months have flown by it's like recording this podcast like i'll be like I was telling Colleen this last weekend at our meetup that my husband has started to hold me accountable for schedule like he started scheduling things over the times that I should.

[00:08:25] Be recording a podcast and he'll be like aren't you recording with Colleen tonight and like no i'm working on something else.

[00:08:32] And he'll be like shouldn't but on your calendar it says you're.

[00:08:37] Colleen tonight and i'm like yeah but like we didn't talk about it in the morning so I don't think that's happening and it's on her calendar to but like we just haven't gotten to it because we're very busy people.

[00:08:52] It is funny that we have them both scheduled into our outlook calendars yeah and then you and I both will be like probably not tonight i haven't heard from her today so probably.

[00:09:03] Exactly respond to me from three days ago she's not responding she's not ready she's not ready she's.

[00:09:11] Yeah I mean it's like.

[00:09:14] I know that planar world is like rolling and evolving and I know that like if you don't evolve with it that you are like left behind or whatever.

[00:09:22] Wow like whenever I hear that I was like giggle a little bit because i'm just like it's still there I still talk to planar people like in nearly every day like i'm.

[00:09:32] planar people and so planar world exists for us just in a different way and then.

[00:09:38] But I also like get on instagram and like to I never get tiktoks or planar world like ever but I get them I mean my Instagram is basically planar world and so i'll watch stuff and i'm like there's not even a lot of planar people talking about planar.

[00:09:58] Like they're like new stuff in the shop by the way let me tell you about this.

[00:10:06] Let me tell you about this submersible you may have heard about would you like to go on a trip oh my gosh.

[00:10:16] You need to do something like that calling.

[00:10:21] We janey if you have a cool quarter million laying around let me know because I got ideas for it.

[00:10:29] No i'm saying we need a scheme to call the two hundred and fifty person do you have a spare game controller because we do we have them I have what kind of you want we could do a switch controller we can do it.

[00:10:46] I don't we have the gaming tonsils but i just call them all Xbox controllers even if.

[00:10:53] I love it this keltie get crazy when you do that is he like that is the switch one the whole family is just like no it's this and then like the Xbox controller it's like the way I call everything Disney world.

[00:11:07] I wonder if like our parents were actually trolling us the way you troll your family or if it's a jet like or if they actually didn't know and they were trolling you know because like you love the troll people that way.

[00:11:20] Yeah, I think that their our parents had to have just been trolling us and like the trope has just carried on they had to know they're very because we're that age now and we're very smart and we're doing it on purpose and so it has to be the same for them.

[00:11:35] Yeah, yeah.

[00:11:38] To people say that for reals no they do oh my god yes i've had younger gentleman that I was dating like respond with that younger gentleman i'm starting to realize weren't even around in the 90's we don't know they were they were but they were babies Zoe is twenty five and she.

[00:12:00] I could have been sat them in the 90's but I didn't in born in 1998.

[00:12:07] That was the worst the event that I was doing at the beginning of the month they had to fill out all these applications I was processing these applications and a bunch of them were grown adults taking this college level course and they were born in 2002.

[00:12:22] I was like I was in a room with 60 and 70 year old women that were closer retiring and I was like i'm sorry ladies we just need a moment I was like there's children in this room that were born in 2002 and they are to be considered our peers and they were like no no no no and it was like this is a real thing so this is this is what has happened so.

[00:12:50] That's no i've not dated anybody born in the 2000s that would be robbery like or create the right I don't know what that phrase is but that would be inappropriate no they have to be born before like my limit.

[00:13:07] Is before.

[00:13:11] 1996 might before 1996 when I graduated from high school.

[00:13:22] I actually so I actually am genuinely and put on the podcast i'm actually going to do a year of no dating you've said it once before I know but I really need it so I have to repeat it.

[00:13:38] The same last episode hasn't been released yet oh I said it before you said it before that it was in May.

[00:13:49] But we really really jude has been a lot did you not hear how we entered so I mean but I technically haven't dated anybody knew.

[00:13:59] Yeah that time so i've been consistent but I like I deleted all the like dating apps I am not dating anybody I mean that doesn't matter what you're born.

[00:14:13] I'm just saying it's a big deal.

[00:14:27] I'm taking a side we're taking a moment we're going to have a little moment of silence for you calling it's you know I.

[00:14:35] It's important to reconnect with who you are and not give power to men.

[00:14:47] It's also probably shot for a lot of things that replace them.

[00:14:53] No I was just thinking about how you know giving up power to men she was very upset this week because I didn't feed him until two thirty in the afternoon.

[00:15:05] I came home and just to frame what i'm dealing with this week i'm trying to get like six dogs and 12 cats placed in homes for my uncle who is dying in the hospital with cancer no go ahead.

[00:15:23] I have a crisis it's going to be a while.

[00:15:27] And with that I give Colleen a moment.

[00:15:31] Jamie gave me three days to really consider my choices to make sure that I really wanted to do this because Jamie not so sure.

[00:15:41] But you know i don't know i can't remember and Jamie will edit this out if she needs to so there's actually like a two hundred dollar bet so far with my friends.

[00:15:55] That I can't do it how do I do I can I jump in on this yeah you know you can jump in.

[00:16:01] And it's not specifically dating it's that i will be celibate for one full year and then one of my friends is like well you know how you're going to meet the world you know it'll be the right guy when he'll offer to pay it just so he can finally like be with you.

[00:16:15] And then I just in my head and like that's basically like sex works so like i'm setting up a sex work that like we're like pay i'll do it and then I was like maybe yeah.

[00:16:25] We'll get to keep the money though like the people that have invested in the pool or you.

[00:16:33] Right here right that's a good point because you know but I think it goes I think you guys get it yeah it's it's great it's great that like.

[00:16:43] People have such confidence in me yeah or confidence in my emotional processing that in two weeks i'll be like.

[00:16:51] I should probably get back on the dating app so I haven't been on bagel meets coffee or whatever it's called.

[00:16:57] I think that's what it's called bagel meets coffee yeah.

[00:17:01] Yeah I the whole I haven't been on it so I can't really confirm but I believe it has something to do with like you just go do a coffee date like it's like.

[00:17:10] I think it was set up in large cities where it's like you do a lunch date instead of do I say.

[00:17:15] But I mean considering that.

[00:17:18] That's yeah anyway so.

[00:17:22] Needless to say.

[00:17:25] Thank you Jamie for giving me those three days to consider my choices and to reconfirm.

[00:17:34] That I am doing this even though it's not my favorite but.

[00:17:40] I do think it's a healthy important choice to focus on myself in my own personal growth.

[00:17:46] There's this guy I follow on the Instagrams who for anybody out there who's like wants to be validated for being single and right now I do.

[00:18:00] Therapy Jeff is what his name is and he just did a whole post about how people who are single me goals more frequently because they're not being harassed by children significant others.

[00:18:14] And they can just do things without having to have discussion and all of that is very me sounds very valid as I was editing.

[00:18:24] The episode that we just released this week I was like it's so weird how like your goals get so tied to your kids and like so much of your objectives are tied to being.

[00:18:39] Like a good parent for them and like that drives and motivates you and now as the kids have gotten older I was like thinking about the plan that you had in that episode of like focusing on yourself and I'm like gosh there's so many of us adult women that have to do that again all over in a fresh way because we like you may be dedicated to dating.

[00:19:05] Then you know and being in different relationships who even dedicated to these like relationships with these humans that are now having a life of their own and it's like a weird abandonment.

[00:19:17] Yeah, wow you're just like a full adult now and I have to like go about doing my life pretend like my whole life didn't revolve around you guys in so many ways.

[00:19:30] Yeah well I mean and I think like you know I think there's a privilege with being where I'm at in my life and you know maybe people at a younger age have done this but I just.

[00:19:42] You know have invested energy in different places and so I haven't but I feel like we need to spend time just exploring and and I think that oftentimes we get stuck in this run.

[00:19:59] And that's why people like joke about midlife crisis and like you know people buying like the sports car because I mean really the reason you're buying the sports cars you can finally afford the sports car.

[00:20:08] Yeah exactly.

[00:20:09] If you don't want it 20 years before it's just like now you can finally like pay for it and so it's interesting because you know from my perspective it's less about it being like it's a midlife acknowledgement right like we are good life.

[00:20:23] Like this is the middle of my life if I'm lucky if I'm lucky I get to be 90 well I mean depending on the kind of 90 right I mean but like this is midlife and so do you consciously make choices for your future and figure out things you like and consciously explore or do you let those things come to you.

[00:20:43] And just accept what is and I feel like you know it's a little bit of both right like I want to be open for ideas and I also want to actively be pursuing things and and I want to you know think of.

[00:20:58] Just different ways to be healthy like I was talking to my my trainer this morning because I started going to a trainer which I know like again privilege right like I'm privileged enough that I can.

[00:21:10] I'm not afraid for a trainer right now and and I fucking hate it like she like I got there and she's like you ready for this and I'm like i'm doing it like I know like this is not fun to me like I don't really.

[00:21:21] But the point being like this is something I need to do and so I talked to her about like well the you know the overall process that I want to do and that we talked about in last episode is not really about so end goals.

[00:21:35] I was like I would like for our training sessions to think about some goals for a period of time and to work on specific things so like.

[00:21:45] My watch tells me in my phone tells me that like my cardio levels that are a certain point and I have not changed them in any way shape or form so I pushed to the same level and then I quit every time.

[00:21:56] And so I want to move that right because it seems like it would be a good thing to do like it seems healthy and it seems like something I really don't want to do because it doesn't seem fun, but I think I need to try.

[00:22:08] And so i'm like you know this is the kind of stuff where you know like.

[00:22:13] Like I take the stairs like so my back was out but my the way my back was out was I had tight muscles when I sat my back got tighter yeah so if I moved I was fine but when I sat it locked up.

[00:22:24] Because when they shorten it's a whole thing that I vaguely understand and so I could still take the stairs and so i'm doing like four flights of stairs which doesn't sound like a lot but fucking four flights of stairs in real world sucks and.

[00:22:39] And i'm sitting there like I can barely bend over but I can walk up these stairs yeah and good for me for if I can walk up and even though it sucks so yeah so i'm excited so i'm thinking Jamie i'm thinking July will be the launch of the.

[00:22:53] Of kind of the spin off group and then.

[00:22:56] And I think that with the assistance of chat gpt we've got a name for what we're doing yeah that's the best thing to do is to use AI to replace us at all times and.

[00:23:12] I came up with a game that I like yeah I.

[00:23:17] I have been figuring out how to like integrate AI into all the stuff that i'm doing and I'm like how do I use this because i'm always like oh let's let's try this new technology.

[00:23:27] But yeah it's like it's wild to me that like when I was listening to that episode as I was editing it I was like how is it already the end of the month like no it's basically the end of the month and we've now gotten here somehow.

[00:23:46] Yeah because time just go away.

[00:23:50] It just definitely makes me realize it like it but in editing it's in time it kind of made me sit and realize like.

[00:23:57] Definitely need to set some intentionality behind like what is happening and it need to come up with some kind of a plan because it also feels like it's somehow the end of the month now.

[00:24:11] And I haven't even gotten done half the stuff that I intended to and all these other priorities have taken over.

[00:24:19] And I feel like it happens faster now that i'm older than what I was younger like everything is speeding up so quickly and I mean even now it's been three days since we started recording this episode and we're just now getting back to it but it's basically like i'm going to hurry up and edit it and get it out before the end of June.

[00:24:40] So we can start this thing up in July, but it's like this is here like this whole thing that we talked about and have been you know visiting about it's already here and ready so.

[00:24:51] Yeah after it I guess let's get well and I think that's you know so for some of it because like you know I think look there's a reason more planners and there's a reason we love planners right and because of that like we have these expectations sometimes.

[00:25:05] And so I was like you know what you just got to you just got to start and yeah and so you know like so I have.

[00:25:15] You know some of it is I really do want folks who want to be involved in the process to help and I want to create.

[00:25:21] Just like different areas of focus.

[00:25:24] And sharing like you know what area i'm leaning towards for the next month and you know in that kind of thing and also I want there to be like flexibility because I also think if I dive into something interesting.

[00:25:35] I don't want to then like give it up but I do think that you know there should be some like not rules but like vague ideas about like after two months you do need to like look into another area and spend some energy learning something new.

[00:25:49] And this is just you know for me and it's because I know my personality type if I find something I really like I become you know I jump head long in.

[00:26:00] And i don't have you do you have you heard of a lot of like your friends or have a lot of people talk to you or have you looked into.

[00:26:08] Like the idea of adult ADHD.

[00:26:11] Oh yeah right and so.

[00:26:14] And so a number of my friends do and when they describe their qualities that may i'm like.

[00:26:22] Maybe maybe two and but like but the difference for me is that like I don't think it impacts me typically in a negative way like I think like.

[00:26:33] But i'm curious right but that might be one of the things I look into but because of that anyway like the circle right like the circle of my interest sometimes I get so focused that i'll forget about it.

[00:26:43] So that's why I really want to spend July like laying out here's some areas with the idea that it could be more and new because I do think like well in my mind this is 4 to 5 and i'm going to spend these next 12 months.

[00:27:00] And so it's like all of my future goals that I still want to meet and like in my 50 before 50 and all of those things and so it's like okay let's.

[00:27:12] Let's set some intentionality around actually doing this and so so with that I mean I think we have the name for this project.

[00:27:21] Yeah product.

[00:27:23] So project.

[00:27:24] Yeah before we move on from the 80th she topic though and tell you what I just want to add one thing is that I think that also it's not even just about having the freed up money like it is being older and like being further along your career.

[00:27:40] I think it's also having a better like we're both pretty traveled people and we've had a lot of experiences but we've also tried a lot of things like we're pretty.

[00:27:49] I mean yes we like to be home but we are pretty adventurous human being we are adventurous for being home bodies like.

[00:27:55] We've done some shit and so I think the other hard thing too is that like as you as you get a little bit older it's like it's so much and I know we said this in in discussing this topic is like.

[00:28:07] It's you get to be like kind of a Renaissance person where it's like you know all these things about like.

[00:28:13] You know things without things you know all this brand of shit you have all these interests and being able to do something you kind of want to push yourself and so I think that by air of learning those things you also get like distracted inside of them and like right now I before we jumped on i'm working on this pair of.

[00:28:33] Place that's that i'm sewing but the placements have been cut for two months and they just sitting on the desk and I just haven't gotten to do it in the whole time i've been thinking about them like oh we can't wait to work on these placements but today I came up here to work on my planner and I saw the placements and i was like oh i'm going to work on those.

[00:28:52] And so you know i mean yay for doing something creative but also like we have so many ways to be able to distract ourselves too.

[00:29:00] Not only can you consume your time from distraction, lack of discipline but just like autopilot i mean it's just like as we've been talking about this like casually it just dawn on me there's so many ways in my life that I'm able to do really neat things but also like there's so many more places for distractions.

[00:29:21] This is for distraction to derail you because all morning i'm like I should probably drive over to the gym and go take a walk on the treadmill because it's super hot outside right now and I don't want to go outside.

[00:29:32] And i'm like but i'm just going to sit here and watch TV and work on this thing and so it definitely is like there's some combination of discipline that's like needed in there that I lack completely when it comes to some things because I also like keep defaulting to be like.

[00:29:50] I'm like i'm an adult and i don't really feel like it today.

[00:29:55] Yeah and and I think it's like some of it is also depending on the message I give myself of like.

[00:30:03] Am I doing this because I want to do it or am I doing this because it's an expectation you know and all of that stuff and there's days where it's like i'm a couch like we're couched and top recalcitrant toddler and i'm like you want me to do that because society says i'm going to I don't have to do that.

[00:30:18] Exactly when it comes to like working out or like going in i don't know i ate a salad every day for the past three days and I don't really feel any better about myself for doing it.

[00:30:34] For the last three days I ate a salad it sounds really stupid but I was just like i'm going to eat a salad i've been trying to eat a salad every day for lunch as like building a better habits whatever and every day I do it and like i just don't feel any better about myself for doing this but like I also know that like eating a salad is better than eating like.

[00:30:57] A case idea or yeah.

[00:31:00] Going and running and getting like a cheeseburger and fries do you know what I mean like and so like as I remember being really enthusiastic about building like good habits when it was younger and i'm just like here I am eating this fun.

[00:31:15] Good habits.

[00:31:16] Good habit so did me day three well and so it's also like things feel very different you in a certain age where it's like oh i'm going to go ahead and do this because it's better for my stupid body that can't just be.

[00:31:29] Body needs it better on its own like i don't understand why you can't just like take a cheeseburger and like make it do what a salad does.

[00:31:38] So we're going to science if you aren't fixing that for us that's what I need.

[00:31:45] It's so funny because like so this morning right like i go to my trainer and like and I and I do things right but my watch stops working halfway in some fucking piss and then i'm like do I need spend 400 dollars on a new watch is so stupid but I think I do because it makes me so mad that it distracts me and then I don't just finish the thing but then I think there's something about working out and I think.

[00:32:07] I think it's because of like test officer owner something like bus boost new system to them all the aggressive on the road after i'm done working out every time.

[00:32:17] Like i'm oddly mad at the you know like so I noticed that but then I was like okay.

[00:32:22] So my head I did this full debate for 20 minutes as I drive back from my trainer to like my side of town and i'm like do I go to trade or Joe's because they have this new fucking snack mix that has pretzels and potato chips and.

[00:32:36] Other salty crunchy things in with chocolate so it's a chocolate mound with saltiness and it's like the perfect salty sweet thing ever and they're going to run out because it's straight or Joe's and that's what they do.

[00:32:47] And I and I recognize intellectually i'm only going for that like i'm saying it's for the other things that I get there but I really want that.

[00:32:55] And so I'm going to do my returns i've got to do my Amazon returns to get my money back for the things i'm not keeping and then I will decide from there and so then I was like but if you go to sprouts you know that you can get fruit and you really want fruit and it's your period this week or like my periods are going to start next week so i'm going to be like craving crap this week yeah so it's like have fruit you'll be happy with fruit but if you get the other shit you're going to eat the other shit so just go go to sprouts so I go to sprouts but there's a bakery.

[00:33:25] So i'm not saying that I bought three pastries in a fresh loaf of bread so then I get home and i'm like I bought this like salad mix that needs to be eaten by tomorrow and I was like okay I can have I should have the salad.

[00:33:38] And then I'm like but that loaf of bread I got smells amazing and so then I said i'll make a sandwich i'll make a cheese sandwich it's perfect just a little something it's perfect.

[00:33:47] And my cheese is fucking moldy so then i'm like fine i'm just going to eat the bread then i'm just going to eat bread but all my butter's hard so i'm just going to eat plain bread until I take like three bites of the bread and i'm like oh i boiled eggs today i can make.

[00:34:03] An egg salad sandwich and that would be perfect for this bread and then it does not occur to me until I decide to take a picture and post this on instagram.

[00:34:12] That I could have just gotten a new slice of bread I didn't have to use the half eaten slice of bread.

[00:34:18] Because I just didn't even did not occur to me and these are the moments that i'm like could it be ADHD.

[00:34:28] I cannot diagnosis you with that at all.

[00:34:32] Neither can I but it makes me curious yeah makes me curious just like how did I not think to just grab another slice of bread.

[00:34:38] I don't know there's i as you were talking about that I was thinking about how it also becomes like the other hard part of just like being an adult in this moment for me at least.

[00:34:50] Is that there's just like the one more day thing to where it's like we're just going to get through we're going to do that tomorrow.

[00:34:56] Tomorrow like tomorrow is going to be the day that we do that because i'm an adult and I don't want to today.

[00:35:03] And reminding myself that like you did that for last week so I definitely think that there's clearly planery stuff in there where it's like.

[00:35:12] I think a lot this a planer podcast so people will understand this but a lot of times recently i've been writing down a few things that need to happen to my planner each week.

[00:35:20] Each week like stuff that I want to remember but then like there's not a lot of intentionality going into my planner where i'm like yeah looking at my planner and being like oh.

[00:35:29] Here are the objectives that i'm going to have this week like I used to be really solid even just a couple years ago about making sure that I was getting in like.

[00:35:37] This is you're going to take a walk at this time you're going to do this and I realize that one of my systems that broken and i've actually known this for a while i've known this since last year one of the systems it's like really broken in my life is like.

[00:35:50] The lack of scheduling and I have I really not wanted to get back into like a really rigid schedule like i'm liking some of the fluidness of the way that my time is.

[00:36:01] It feels better and like more soothing to my soul to just be able to vibe but I also feel like I need to put like actual to do list together and maybe it's not like a time rigid to do list but it is like a daily to do lists where it's like.

[00:36:15] Eat the stupid fucking lunch salad and i'm going to keep calling it that by the way eat the stupid fucking lunch salad and go on the fucking walk and because like when people talk about fitness and i've said some podcasts before and say this to any chance I get.

[00:36:28] Like when it comes to being fitnessy like i don't like it really I really don't it's like i really have to force myself and there's people like if you just do it again consistent.

[00:36:41] And I think that that's like.

[00:36:46] wrong and so for me.

[00:36:48] For me.

[00:36:49] I do think it's wrong for me this is not a life I don't think it's like force to do yeah I don't agree with liking it not for you.

[00:36:59] I do think you start feeling like you need it because i've been I got a couple of times with yoga.

[00:37:05] Yeah, if I do it my body needed it yeah what did I like it no three quarters of the time i'm like what a fuck am I doing to myself and then it's afterwards i'm like oh here's the endorphins that I get it and I guess these are okay like these are all right and but like I think the difference is for me is that like.

[00:37:27] it's hard to find movement that is enjoyable sometimes in like that fitness kind of model with my body type two right because like yeah.

[00:37:39] Because I think sometimes with with my body like in and like and i've never had lung stamina for cardio so that's always been a struggle always even when I was in high school running was always the hardest thing.

[00:37:52] For me by far like I never i've never been one of those people who could run long distances ever my body is like built for like fields in Ireland like it is not bill.

[00:38:02] We've run on across anything like i'm just supposed to be bending over and I can like bend over like a motherfucker like yoga showed me but.

[00:38:10] But the other side of it is like it's sort of how do you find the things you enjoy because they're then are some things I do enjoy doing that I feel.

[00:38:18] Like a complicate I can get it right and I think that's the thing though right like how do you.

[00:38:24] Find the motions in the movement that bring joy to you when you're done or when you're doing it.

[00:38:32] To balance out the ones that are shitty that you need to do because you need to do them yeah no I.

[00:38:37] I have some semblance of what that looks like my.

[00:38:43] More recent challenge is really like discipline and motivation and so it's like I know I need to prioritize it and then I need to be disciplined about executing on it and that just sounds very like rigid and like very structured for me and so it's really wrestling that.

[00:39:00] Just that foot even you say I know no it's really it's really like I haven't had a lot of i've had a lot of traveling so i've had a lot of fluidity and just being able to be like blah blah blah and it's summer so like the family's time is you know fluid.

[00:39:18] And you know if i'm going to do when I do need to work out i'm trying to work out with my husband as well and so he has a very rigid schedule and he's very much like wants to go in the evenings and I want to go in the morning times.

[00:39:32] Because I want to get it over with but then like I also don't want to go by myself and I don't really want to find a friend so I want to go with him.

[00:39:40] Then we can do it together but also it's kind of late for me like I like to be cozy at night and now you want to go somewhere yeah.

[00:39:47] So it's we're balancing all of those things out and i'm getting it done like i've been going walking and doing all the little machines and all the structures to do we've been doing a little yoga ease.

[00:39:57] together a couple times a week and doing the stretches and we like that like we're definitely finding my way in it so i'm like not so we're sitting anybody for advice please do not fucking message me about this shit because I don't want to your help.

[00:40:10] If you're listening to this and you think you know how to do that for me.

[00:40:14] That's a reason i that's another reason that I haven't joined like a goal setting group at all is because I really don't want i've never really had the desire for the accountability inside of this.

[00:40:24] That comes along with some of this stuff and I just don't really want to talk about it with people so you know but I think I am close to coming out of that we're with.

[00:40:33] But I also you're setting up where you're just talking about it like yeah I because I really like and I made it clear because my trainer was like oh like let me know and like i'd love to join and i'm like.

[00:40:44] That's not trying to sell shit to people because you'll be out this is not a sale but this isn't a group for like exploring different.

[00:40:52] Things right and so I do think that there is something to be said for like this is what I do and here's some ideas and whatever but selling i will not be you know but but I think that's the really important part to me is that the accountability.

[00:41:06] It is purely for you in a way that makes you fulfilled right so.

[00:41:12] So there's no like and i'm going to make a big point about like goals maybe within a certain arena you have a goal but there's no specific goal for the year related to this what it is.

[00:41:25] I can't.

[00:41:26] Trying different things exactly and maybe it's just semantics and maybe it's just because I hate the word oh she said smart goals and I was like fuck a smart goal like I hate them from seventh grade i fucking over it.

[00:41:39] I mean i think that the goal of the thing is to figure out what you need and figure out what you want over the course of the 12 months and prioritize that for yourself like we're not here to facilitate that for you per say no and I think it's where you need to find balance right so I think that's the thing for me and that is what.

[00:41:59] You know so I talk about in my self care work you know that there's three levels there's awareness balance and connection and i'm in awareness and connection are the easier ones for me that the balance and like.

[00:42:11] Is really challenging because what I find is I am always teeter tottering on that one where i'm either.

[00:42:18] Becoming so isolated as like a home body that I don't see anybody or I have five trips planned around the world in a month because i'm just like that seems like a good idea.

[00:42:28] Because i'm doing it when i'm home not doing anything right without thinking through like energetically what that means for me and so and then the other pieces you know like I think one of the pieces that i'm going to suggest is treating your home like it's planning a vacation.

[00:42:46] And really exploring where you live because I realized like I was driving past this this cute little shop that i've dreamed past literally for probably solidly 10 years 15 years maybe and i've never gone in and every time I drive past it i'm like that's such a cute little shop.

[00:43:03] And so it's like stuff like that where it's like go into the fucking cute little shop who knows right who knows what could be in that cute little shop and so it's stuff like that for me where i'm like.

[00:43:13] Go do that thing go do that thing and put like a little bit of effort because if I was on vacation and Tucson I would just drive up and go to the shop yeah right because because in part of it is my mentality when i'm traveling.

[00:43:30] I recognize I only have a finite period of time that I may ever be in this place and so I want to eat the best food I want to see the cutest things and I want to consume and enjoy everything that I can right like and when I say consume I don't mean like spend money on but I mean just be present in yeah.

[00:43:55] And because I've been here for so long, there are things that absolutely I feel like you know like I have my places but there's so many other ones like Tucson is such a rich environment and i'm just like okay so you need to.

[00:44:09] expand out your consumption of your town yeah and and really treat it as if it's a vacation so I think like one month should be like vacation in your town what do you find like.

[00:44:21] What new restaurant are you gonna go to like what do you know what are you gonna explore that's new for you like there's museums here i've never even been to I love museums yeah i've never been the museum here you've got a couple really good art museums there too yeah it's really absurd and one of them I even like.

[00:44:38] make well that one I've been to I sold jewelry at one of them for a number of years and then the other one like there's been croffaires and it's like every time I think i'm going to go and then i'm like.

[00:44:48] And I don't but I've been to their dish up yeah but.

[00:44:53] Like that's I think yeah that I know one of the things i'm going to challenge myself with is the opposite and that is like getting out in the community finding ways to get out in the community a little bit more.

[00:45:04] And these are so i had to go have a or I had a pot a plant repotted this week and so.

[00:45:10] I thought you're going to say a pot roast I know and a plant repotted my monster was like super.

[00:45:18] I only got it a few months ago, but it had been in that pot for a long time and it wasn't holding water anyway I took it into the store.

[00:45:25] That I buy my plans from and the lady remembered me I was like kind of tickled and she was like that we visited and I was like yeah i kind of miss like this and she was telling me how where.

[00:45:36] That the shop that she owns used to be down by our house and what it was like when it was down there and was like oh that's why I like I didn't know that and so.

[00:45:46] It was kind of neat to learn a little bit of the history about you know the part of town that I man and habits changed some in the last year for years like since covid happened.

[00:45:56] I also had another plant issue where a bunch of the plants in our yard died, so I went down to go complain to the nursery and the lady ended up being really nice that owns the nursery and like replaced a bunch of things for us.

[00:46:07] But like she was visiting with me about what she remembers like being in the area too and so.

[00:46:13] I remember that i'm folksy even though I sometimes forget that I can just go places and talk to people in in leaving my house to so.

[00:46:24] Yeah yeah no it's interesting though because it's like there's been a few things that i've been able to do that i'm just like there's so much richness here and and I think every community truly is like that you just get in your rut you get in your rut and everything that other people are doing in other places looks more fabulous.

[00:46:44] But I have like a friend who she's a bit younger and she works for the paper and she works for this section that's called this is Tucson and so she's always going and doing things and posting it and i'm like oh Gloria I just need to follow you around for like a month.

[00:47:02] And like do these things but then I also remember like I also know places to go I just haven't gone and so it's like in the quadrant of my city like let's spend this Saturday going and exploring this and let's you know i and it's just silly because.

[00:47:17] I should just do that naturally but I don't because I get tired right like I get tired and they don't make plans and all of that and so I mean I think it's.

[00:47:28] When you when I start talking about it and I start like kind of brainstorming and like bringing people in i'm really excited for the possibility and so.

[00:47:35] Is a crazy thing and may have already picked out like two of the four locations if you decided to do this quarterly that we would completely have this or is that like team and bar.

[00:47:47] No, I think that is exactly how this is supposed to go Jamie.

[00:47:52] This is how it's supposed to go so first of all I mean we haven't said the name of it yet say the name of it yeah so i have to remember it in the chat.

[00:48:02] This is going to be the intentional reset and that's what we're doing moving forward we're doing intentional reset and I just love it because it's it's really not about any specific outcome right it's about exploring and connecting with yourself which quite frankly could be a whole lot of stuff.

[00:48:21] For sure and that's what makes it so exciting and so thank you chat GPT.

[00:48:32] I use chat GPT to do two things this week in this realm one was to make this like figure out this name by talking to it and the other ones to figure out how to pick a discord name because I needed to join discord or something else.

[00:48:47] And I was like you're supposed to use you know a avatar name like as if it's a forum back in the 90s which makes you feel.

[00:48:55] Early 2000s I guess it makes you feel very old 20 years ago regardless and I was like oh my gosh yeah so you know I don't know how to do this actually ended up calling Kendra and as well in between Kendra and chat GPT we wouldn't have figured something out so.

[00:49:13] Would you get what you get oh gosh now I have to remember.

[00:49:17] Hold on let me sign into discord look i'm still using what I thought was a very sassy like username back in my a well chat days and my dad and mom found out about it when I was in college my dad would send me letters calling me fiery one because that's.

[00:49:32] Yes and I was like yeah thanks i don't know if you should call me that so it's the craft it's crafty creative.

[00:49:42] Oh crafty creative.

[00:49:46] No it's hard because like as much I love planning like I love planning but planning for me became like kind of a gateway drug into getting back into crafts yes and because I had not been crafty for so.

[00:50:02] So long and so now I have like the nice craft positive with like my beating stuff and my sewing stuff and my button making stuff.

[00:50:12] I think you say that as if planning wasn't like five years solid.

[00:50:18] No I know i know.

[00:50:19] I know before I jumped into these other things, I mean I do think you know so one of the things I debated is like do we have like an intentional reset section of the podcast or do we do.

[00:50:38] A whole separate podcast a good question something to think about.

[00:50:43] Absolutely yeah i don't mind things to think about Jamie I like it yeah it's it's inter I mean we've been doing it.

[00:50:49] I'm doing this podcast for so long too like there are sometimes that i'm like do people even care about planners anymore because I never get planner stuff over on tiktok.

[00:50:59] And then in planar world like I on instagram they certainly get a lot of them but like I don't really participate in a lot of Facebook groups I actually I for the first time commented on a Facebook post in a long time there was somebody in.

[00:51:13] So the sterling ink group which is the planner that i've been using for my weekly's my weekly visa oh yeah she already opened up 2024 pre orders for the common planner.

[00:51:24] And so I need to go order my planner today because I want to make sure I get the same one.

[00:51:31] And so but I was laughing because I was like oh shit here we are we used to talk so much shit about pre orders of planners and all this stuff but here it is like June and I'm about to order my 2024.

[00:51:44] Like weekly planner because I really like this one I just want to stay in it and I'm like kind of like how freaking wild is that to be ordering your planner for 2024 and June but apparently it'll get delivered October November so it'll be here in time you know she sold out last year I think it's a smart way to do it she sold out of her planners last year and then people were really disappointed and so you know.

[00:52:12] Yeah well if she's a smaller business like you don't want to sit on inventory so pre orders a smart way to navigate it like that I mean I think of all the ways that we used to do pre orders back in the day I mean it was so common because folks needed to get the money to be able to pay for the stuff.

[00:52:29] Yeah but the funny thing so in the Facebook group that she has someone said an honest question about the planning on a question planning community and the person proceeds to ask a question about why there's a reference to quote unquote pre planning and memory planning.

[00:52:50] And she's like I don't understand what that is and I was like laughing because it was people were commenting about how that they plan on the thread and I'm like it comes from happy planner world like too many people were buying too many happy planners and they basically needed to come with some way to be able to use all those happy planners.

[00:53:12] So people started memory keeping that was the first time I heard that term was happy planner pushing it the memory keeping or the memory planning.

[00:53:21] Yeah I mean I don't remember where it came from other than it was like because it was I mean some of it like memory planning came also out of creative planning so it was the goal putting in the creative and so it was so for me that's where it kind of developed from right because I never planned for the purpose of goal setting.

[00:53:41] It was more just to get my head down on paper which is what was helpful for me and like what I need from planning but yeah no I think it's but it's interesting because you were using a happy planner at that time so for you of course conference would directly link back and maybe it does.

[00:53:56] But for me it comes from the creative planning argument right the creative planning argument and then when people got honestly it's when people weren't doing their weekly post and that sort of they would say i'm going back to memory planning so like i'm going back in my memory planning and so some of it was that too was like if you didn't get in your you know your.

[00:54:18] Sunday post with your final.

[00:54:23] Spread yeah you're really spread post it would be like okay I went back and caught up so it was really that catch up planning and then you know and then there was of course the argument it was not planning and then that's why I had to become like a whole thing.

[00:54:39] Then the planning to when I remember pre planning I recall that being like when people started to write in their planner but in pencil or they were using sticky notes.

[00:54:50] To like pre plan the week but then like lay down stickers when a spread like when their spread happened but they needed to remember what was happening but they wanted it to be perfect which still seems to.

[00:55:02] So no.

[00:55:07] I mean i guess i like i feel like you know i mean it's not an abnormal it's not abnormal no.

[00:55:16] What's who knows i almost i almost got suckered into ordering a plum paper planner this week too because i was getting a targeted ad for a plum paper planner but I had a really nice cover on it and I was.

[00:55:31] Like ooh maybe I need a new plum paper planner so that I could do it but then I remember that I actually do like the planner that I'm in I backed off so.

[00:55:42] I should check out the planner you have because I while I like the hope and each if it like it has more than I need and then I feel like i'm wasting.

[00:55:50] Because I want be sick so be sick is my size.

[00:55:54] And I may just go back to best and I just have to go like I mean that maybe.

[00:55:59] Well i'm very happy with the common place planner and I'm the common planner b six full year i've been really happy with it I mean i'm also using any plans planner though to for daily.

[00:56:13] The any plans b six planner but I like them both what blush and bashful are still serving me well.

[00:56:21] It's good we've reversed rules I know why are we we are each other.

[00:56:26] We know so.

[00:56:29] Who are we we are.

[00:56:32] Because eventually you know it all just comes back to the 90s and being who we were as teenagers.

[00:56:41] And so first of all can we just talk about the overalls like the overalls are back short also back and like and I can't decide if I'm allowed to wear them or not am I.

[00:56:53] I know is it weird if I mean i.

[00:56:56] I have really been like contemplating meeting a baby doll dress again and I feel like.

[00:57:03] I mean i have so many days is it inappropriate is it really appropriate in my love to do this is you.

[00:57:10] Yeah I did decide that I could have a pair of dock martens again so I bought a pair of those last weekend.

[00:57:18] And again having more income as an adult I can just buy dock martens and so.

[00:57:24] I know I just saved multiple paycheck same from my job for my dock martens in my school so my mom wouldn't buy them because.

[00:57:33] Like okay this is going way back my mom would not buy me a pair of dock martens not because the price.

[00:57:39] But maybe probably but the lies she told me was because that's what white supremacist for because you were a certain color of shoe lace it indicated you were white supremacist newer Nazi.

[00:57:50] So I was not or a Ku Klux Klan member and I was not allowed to have them because of that reason.

[00:57:55] And so if I wanted them I needed to buy them myself and I was explained to my mother that's not true Cheryl that's not true.

[00:58:03] But I think with certain licenses it is still true but.

[00:58:08] Oh date like that's also conjecture and it's just a rumor.

[00:58:12] I just really feel like you know date line you know what I mean like.

[00:58:17] I feel like our parents watch so much date line with your kids and there was a if it made it now we know like if it makes it to something that your parents are seeing that means it's not a thing.

[00:58:30] Or it was a thing and it's over now like we were talking about remember how our adults were very scared of us all becoming Satanists.

[00:58:39] Oh my god yeah like because of listening to different music I was having good laugh about that yesterday with Kelsey and his cousin when we had lunch with him and yeah.

[00:58:48] We were like laughing about how absurd it is that by the time that your parents know that something actually happens it's not even cool anymore or like it's like a game of telephone where it's been completely lost in translation.

[00:59:00] And now it's different I think because you can watch the same tiktoks as your kids and you can get it quicker but also that probably means that I'm way out of touch because.

[00:59:12] Kendra and I think we'll like anything to talk we think that comment out later you know there's always things that come later I mean.

[00:59:20] I yeah I do think that it is an interesting thing to now be the age our parents were when we were teenagers and to reflect a little bit on that like.

[00:59:33] Kelsey's about the other day he goes do you know that you're about the same age as oh we're almost the same age as when what did he say.

[00:59:49] Oh we are almost the same age that our parents were when we met and I told him to shut the fuck up kindly and not be talking like that to me in public because it's not.

[01:00:04] I did not.

[01:00:07] Oh my god why are you doing that to us or better people we don't deserve that oh my god that was well it's funny because yeah because I think about it now right like.

[01:00:18] You know I don't know how much I'm pretty sure I've said this on the podcast at some point but share all I think is sometimes a little jealous of all the things i've been able to do in my life because I haven't had children right like so I think as much as.

[01:00:31] She always wanted me to have kids there's also this other side where like I get to have all these adventures and do these things and like you know and not have to worry about children and I think that when I was a soft well okay when I was a freshman in college.

[01:00:44] Within a week of me going to college my parents went on like a month long vacation when there were no cell phones so I was a band in that college with literally no money like very little money very very little money but they put money on my meal plan so that should be enough and like just abandoned essentially for a month with no ability to like call them or anything.

[01:01:08] And in I remember thinking of the time this seems a little fucked up this thing a little bit fucked up that my parents just abandoned me and now I think about it i'm like oh man I can't believe they didn't do it sooner.

[01:01:21] Like I wonder if I can do that today.

[01:01:27] Wait you know what I can do I can take a month off.

[01:01:31] You know and so it's so funny though because then like my software you're in college my mom got a job in Italy and like that's when my parents moved to Europe again and like literally like left me and they were like yeah well pay off your credit card and then they like didn't want to pay the credit card that I was like.

[01:01:47] You told me to use this to pay for the things you would give me money for like my glasses.

[01:01:52] I was being responsible well I wasn't.

[01:01:57] I mean sure I'm sure I'm sure I'm sure this is no I mean no Cheryl knows because Cheryl was irresponsible the same age so I was just following footsteps but but it's so funny because like I remember my mom in this time.

[01:02:14] So about this age bought a pair of leather pants skin tight leather pants in Italy my mom was rocking.

[01:02:24] Wow and I judged her for it because I was like i'm gonna need for you to stop wearing your leather pants and now I think about him like oh no she was totally having her like like Perry Mendez like Perry Mendez like sex like kitten thing in her head and I was like a 20 year old like mom could you please.

[01:02:44] I mean she was 50 so it was a little bit older but like still pretty close and age and just reflecting on that now and I'm like maybe all to get 50 year old leather pants too and that'll be my thing but they won't be leather will be leather let's be honest I won't.

[01:02:59] I think that yeah I think that Kendra is the age that yeah I think Kendra and I are basically aligned with the age that I was when I got pregnant was so we and then the age my mom was when that happened so yeah you know it's a very very different world but.

[01:03:21] Yes, oh my god it's overwhelming to think about that so it's fascinating to think about like what we saw of them and who we are now and how different it was because the world was also smaller in so many ways right yeah because there wasn't the internet there wasn't it was so expensive to travel it was so expensive to travel like.

[01:03:46] Well, and I don't think you thought about I don't think that you thought about the world the way that we think about the world today at all.

[01:03:52] We don't have access to it.

[01:03:54] You did it like the idea of traveling somewhere was like local cars maybe going somewhere a road trip yeah like a road trip like Canada like we would go I mean I lived in the Northwest.

[01:04:11] Well, it would be California for you.

[01:04:13] You would go to Canada like would be exotic or over to Seattle was like going to the big city for us and like you didn't yeah you just didn't think about travel that way and it didn't even seem like something when I was growing up that a lot of other people were traveling very far like they would go to Seattle and so it was like oh you went to like the big city like to Seattle but like I knew the only time I knew people that we're going like somewhere exotic like I had one friend that her family went on cruises.

[01:04:40] But they were like Mary which was unusual for my friend group in high school but their parents.

[01:04:48] Oh, they're doing come family yeah family and so they would go on a cruise once a year but all of the kids wouldn't go just be the two parents that would go.

[01:04:59] So it's not the vacations were a little bit more for like adults to go on versus like you know normal people yeah well and I think like my parents just didn't have vacation time.

[01:05:09] So my mom like our vacations would be driving back east and we would drive because it was not affordable to fly.

[01:05:16] And so we would drive to my grandma's house in New York.

[01:05:20] I'm going to help very fancy because we drove to New York and so I could say that I went to New York but it was like a two week round trip kind of thing right like you would drive and spend a week a week and half and then you drive back because that was all the vacation time my mom had yeah.

[01:05:34] And then the rest of the summer was you know the price is right and family feud you know like I mean it was like watching TV and stuff.

[01:05:43] And so it's interesting now to think about how different it is now like how much more affordable it is actually no for sure like my brother and his wife they flew down to Phoenix and their they're visiting Phoenix right now but like the kids can go do so many things like even now taking kids to go do stuff.

[01:06:01] Like there's a lot more pools available for kids their splash pads like there's so much like communities have evolved to fit kids into them when we were kids communities were about keeping them in the neighborhood.

[01:06:15] And so now more of the community evolves around making sure that families are entertained and they want to stay in places and not every community but a lot of places are like that now where there's like family friendly activities for you to be able to go do that's like.

[01:06:30] You know either free or semi affordable like when I feel like back then it was church focus yeah it was very church centric so like I remember doing things as a family but it would be centered around church like the short time that we went to the Presbyterian Church and then the military so it was like very different sort of environments whereas now it's like there's so many ways to make friends and there's so many different options yeah.

[01:06:56] To create circles it's interesting but I was reading there was a statistic sorry before we wrap up the there was a statistic and a report about church recently that like 60% 57% of boomers go to church or went to church when their kids were growing up Jen X it dropped to like 39% of them yeah Jen.

[01:07:19] And now and even now as adults it's more like 27 but then Gen.C. and like millennials and Gen.C. it's more like 21% and so it's like steeping off significantly the number of people that prioritize church at the center of their like family activities and that was where my social circle was when I was a kid is that we always did church related stuff and everything was tied to church and now like we took Kendra this weekend to Austin Comic Con you know so she could go meet up with her.

[01:07:48] And it's like well that's not church related at all.

[01:07:53] We went to Houston the weekend before and that was you know we took her shopping and that was not church related at all.

[01:08:02] Yeah it's interesting because it's like some things are similar but some things are very different.

[01:08:09] Yeah anyway okay we went on a whole full tangent that had nothing to do with the intentional reset was a reflection of you know we're sitting on the porch just sipping our ice tea and lemonade and thinking about what the youngsters are doing yeah for sure we're old as fucking that way.

[01:08:28] Yeah it's good I love it it's really satisfying.

[01:08:33] I'll go spend my extra income because I have no children.

[01:08:38] It's so funny so like I had a super stressful week and this will kind of wrap us up but I was super stressful week I know you did too but this morning was the first morning I could sleep in without an alarm and I was just so freaking exhausted I went to bed.

[01:08:52] I fought going to sleep because I like I was like it's Saturday night I'm not going to bed before nine but I really wanted to so into bed like a 915 and so then I slept until 8 am which is like I haven't slept for 11 hours.

[01:09:09] I was like I'm not going to sleep forever but it was one of those moments where I was like and then I had to go to training and it was so funny because my trainer has a little girl and a little boy and she's like yeah you don't have kids you don't have to and I was like I do not and the dogs are at an age now where they also are like I'll sleep with yeah it's fine we can sleep.

[01:09:29] Rest.

[01:09:31] So so may everybody get excited for an intentional reset for the next year we're going to kick it off in July very excited Jamie's very excited.

[01:09:42] Very excited.

[01:09:44] Yeah and with that Jamie I want you to keep planning and stay awesome.

[01:09:49] I'll try.

[01:09:50] Are those the charges?

[01:09:52] Yes, I do.

[01:09:53] Have a bitch in summer.

[01:09:56] Yeah, I have a bitch in summer.

[01:09:57] Love you like a sister.

[01:10:01] Bye!

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